Vic Atchison passed away last week. I worked for Vic 17 years ago at Lewis & Clark College, and our paths continued to cross periodically through the years. He was diagnosed with cancer about three years ago. Since last summer, we’d been having breakfast together once a month.
While Vic’s body gradually failed him, his spirit never wavered. Even a few days before his death—when he could no longer talk—he took my hand firmly (the way he always shook).
One of the things I admired about Vic is that he never called attention to himself. He led quietly, confidently, almost invisibly (in the true Taoist sense) through the extension of opportunity and tolerance rather than pontification. Another colleague described Vic as “the most adult” of his professional mentors.
Far too often, we don’t have the opportunity (or we simply fail) to express appreciation to those who have touched us. Fortunately, I had several occasions to reminisce with Vic, and I remain especially grateful for our final exchange.
Each time we visited these last several months, I wrote, I’ve been reminded of two very important lessons—one about life, the other about leadership. When it comes to life, attitude makes all the difference—and yours has been positive every minute (even in some dark hours). I appreciate the fact that you always had and continue to maintain an upbeat manner. And you’re living proof that optimism serves us well. As it relates to leadership, what I value most is your simple approach: hire good people, empower them, encourage them, and get out of their way. Thank you for both the opportunities and leeway you afforded me. Now that I’m at the helm of an organization, I’ve done my best to emulate you—which I suppose is the ultimate tribute. I hope you continue to celebrate the lessons you’ve imparted and the gift you’ve been to those you managed over the years. I’ll continue to savor the memories and try to follow your example.
That same day, I received this response from Vic:
Your note struck my heart strings beyond words. It has been my honor and good fortune to work with the likes of you and I am grateful that we had some good times. “Leadership” has flowed both ways. It has always been my good fortune to work with staff who were smarter and more talented than me. So whatever we imparted to each other has been a true blessing for me. I thank each for what I’ve been given and I cherish the memories and friendships I’ve gained.
That note prompted what would be my final written correspondence (though I would see him twice thereafter):
Your words are equally touching to me, I wrote, and once again, I’m grateful. I’m reminded of a piece I read many years ago—the interlude from a song by Gregory Norbet, called, Wherever You Go:
“When the time of our particular sunset comes, our thing, our accomplishment, won’t really matter a great deal. But the clarity and care with which we have loved others will speak with vitality of the great gift of life we have been for each other.”
Thank you, Vic. You spoke with vitality. And you’ve been a great gift. Rest in peace.
Tom Soma, Executive Director